Christmas or Communion?
Here in America, Christmas seems to be a much bigger affair than I am accustomed to in South Africa. Many houses are beautifully decorated, almost every one sports at least some form of Christmas decoration, even if just a wreath on the door or a tree in the window. Millions of Dollars are spent on food, gifts, cards and other paraphernalia that relates to Christmas and even the gasoline stations join in by hiking the price of fuel. So it is not unexpected that I have been thinking long and hard about the holiday, it’s meaning and the reasons why people love to celebrate it so lavishly.
It is clear that it is not a Christian celebration since more unbelievers than true believers celebrate the day. So what is it about the season that people, even unbelievers, find so attractive? It seems to have little to do with Jesus and the message of the Gospel and much to do about money, greed and commercialism. Recently a newspaper headline suggested that we should rather call it “techmas”, referring to the emphasis on technology and technological toys and gifts. Even children seem to agree by pulling their noses up at any gift that does not require batteries.
I can not find a single reference in the whole Bible where the Disciples or the early church celebrated His birth. Come to think of it, there is not a single reference to Jesus ever celebrating His own birthday! There is also no instruction in the whole of the Bible to celebrate the birth of the Savior. Unlike His birth, His death is to be celebrated and to be remembered. Jesus instituted the memorial the night before He was crucified (Matthew 26:26). He instructs the disciples to celebrate it (Luke 22:19) and Paul instructs us to remember the Lord (1Corinthians 11). Yet the vast majority of Westerners will celebrate His birth while ignoring His death! Why?
One of the possible reasons lies in the fact that “gentle Jesus, meek and mild” is a lot more user-friendly and manageable than a bloody Savior on a cross. A baby Jesus in a crib, all cute and cuddly sells product much better than One at whose Name every knee shall bow, and the romance of an “illegitimate” child, born in a stable in an obscure village, and Who rose to greatness is far more appealing than the truth that our sin nailed Him to that tree. A helpless baby who makes no demands, other than for food is much more appealing than a risen, glorified Lord who demands our total love, obedience and devotion.
Thus many people prefer to “freeze” the moment and the Child for ever. That way, He is much less threatening and more manageable. We too like think of God in terms of gifts, giving and presents and not as One Who makes just and holy demands. Above all, men like to confine God to a shape and form in which they can manage and control Him. Is this not one of the ways in which we change the glory of the incorruptible God? (Romans 1:23).
Yes, the Almighty Word became flesh and limited Himself to the body of a baby that was helpless and totally dependant upon His parents for everything. But, He is no longer a helpless, cute baby or even a young man. He is the risen, glorious King of Kings and Lord of Lords. He is the One who will soon come to judge the world, destroy His enemies and establish His eternal Kingdom. Every knee shall bow before Him and every tongue shall confess that He is Lord (Philippians 2:10).
His birth was incidental to God’s wonderful plan of salvation. He had to be born in human form in order to relate to us and to be a faithful High Priest but, He did not come to be born: He came to die! It is not His birth that saves us, but His death and resurrection. Many people like to emphasize Jesus’ life as an example, rather than see Him as the One Who died and rose again. They willingly forget that the message of the Gospel is not His life and death, but rather, His death and life. Yes, we like to see Him as the Lamb of God, but forget that He is no longer dumb before those who slaughtered Him. He now has seven horns which represent his Divine power and authority (Revelation 5:6) and when He speaks, the heavens and earth quake. No longer is there no room for Him in the inn, but heaven is His throne and the earth His footstool (Acts 7:49). No longer is He wrapped in swaddling clothes, but now He is “clothed with a garment down to the feet and girded about the chest with a golden band. His head and hair white like wool, as white as snow, and His eyes like a flame of fire; His feet like fine brass, as if refined in a furnace, and His voice as the sound of many waters; He had in His right hand seven stars, out of His mouth went a sharp two-edged sword, and His countenance like the sun shining in its strength.” (Revelation 1:13-16).
Is it wrong for us to celebrate His birth? Yes, I think it is wrong if we do not give far more importance to remembering His death than His birth. Here’s the catch: How many of us look forward to the Lord’s Table and put as much time into preparing for Communion as we do for Christmas. Most Christians will miss the Lord’s Table for the slightest excuse, yet they will travel thousands of miles to be present at a Christmas celebration. And don’t tell me it’s not about Christmas but that it is time to be with family. So is the Lord’s Supper not a time to be with family? And the excuse that it is a holiday also does not work – every Sunday is a holiday.
You can celebrate Christmas as long as at least twelve times a year (preferably 52 times) you will look forward to, and put as much time into preparing your heart and mind for the Lord’s table as you do for Christmas and if you will spend as much money on giving to the Lord each week as you give to others at Christmas. Isn’t it strange that amid all the emphasis on gifts and giving around Christmas, that this is the month when giving to the church is the lowest of the year! Something has to be wrong with this picture.
For too long the church has allowed the world to shape it’s traditions and values. It should be the other way around. It is time for us to get back to the priorities and principles of the Bible and not of the world. Enjoy your celebrations but determine to give more importance to the Lord’s table than Christmas – that’s the way it should be.
written 12/25/2006
source: found HERE
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December 21, 2008 at 2:13 pm
Clark Bunch
I certainly agree that his birth in Bethlehem was the first step toward the cross. Dying for our sins is the reason he was born. You may have also noticed that 2 gospels tell of his birth, all 4 record his death. But still…
Isaiah, Micah, and other Old Testament prophets foretold of his birth, and Matthew and Luke record the fulfillment of those prophecies. There must be something to celebrate there. At the the time of Jesus’ birth, the sky was filled with the heavenly host singing praises to God; they seemed to be celebrating his birth, and told the shepherds to go do the same. The wise men came from “afar” to celebrate his birth, and whoever they were had enough faith in God to heed the angel’s warning about not returning to Herod.
I agree with celebrating the death, burial and resurrection of our Lord and Savior. But to die, he must have first been born. The incarnation is what sets Jesus apart from Islam, and for that matter every other major world religion. “The Word became flesh and dwelt among men.” This happened at his birth; it is also cause to celebrate. And while the world around us is buying expensive things and misses the point, it provides us an opportunity to step in and explain the message of Jesus while they happened to be thinking about him, if only a little bit.
December 21, 2008 at 2:53 pm
Kim
Hi Clark,
Thank you for your comment. I get very conflicted this time of year with all the celebration of material things instead of Jesus.
Then there are the other issues like Christmas was adopted from a pagan holiday Saturnalia. Jesus was actually born earlier in the year, and then there is the tree thing….
Jeremiah 10:2-4
“Thus saith the Lord, Learn not the way of the heathen…for the customs of the people are vain; for one cutteth a tree out of the forest, the work of the hands of the workmen, with the axe. They deck it with silver and with gold; they fasten it with nails and with hammers, that it move not.”
Now i know that this may be referring to the Asherah poles they erected, but it still gives me pause, it sounds just a little too close to a Christmas tree description for my liking.
I did not put up a tree this year but i did put up some orange/copper/white floral arrangements with yellow pinecone lights, on my mantle and dining room buffet. That’s it.
I do wish to worship in truth and spirit and yes i will celebrate with my family and attend worship Christmas eve with a communion service.
December 22, 2008 at 2:07 pm
Bonnie E
Merry Christmas to Everyone,
It is interesting to notice the variety of views and feelings that Christians express during this time of year. Some are so very serious they appear to be legalistic in the “don’ts” of celebrating the birth of our Lord. (If the angels covered the sky with glory, light, and songs of praise, it sets a precedent for all who have accepted Jesus…his birth, death, resurrection…promise to return…etc..) I enjoy decorating my home with lights….a Christmas tree (if the heathens used a tree in ancient times..then remember who created it in the first place and what we are doing with it when we offer it as a symbol of joy that we have because he came to us ) with decorations depicting the manger…the angels…the Baby Jesus…and the worshipping Magi. Yes, I even invite family and friends and ‘strangers’ to come and enjoy the hospitality and love of our home so that we have opportunity to “shine” in the darkness of this sinful world. The Christmas services of worship and music bring joy also. Yes, the Communion services remind us all of the sacrifice He made to take on the form of His own creation….(I can’t even get my mind around that one)…and then lived with us….loving us….correcting our legalistic religiousness…and then dying for us…and THEN, Praise to His Glorious Name, coming forth from the tomb of death in three days to manifest His authority and supremely sovereign presence as God, the Risen Lord, the Son of Righteousness…the Lamb slain from the foundation of the world…victorious! I choose to, at this time, when the world may be missing the reasons for celebrating his quietly humble beginnings while they replace it with overspending and partying….remember that they are the lost ones to whom He has come, and then sent us to reach in His Glorious Name…Whether we decorate a tree or not, or put up beautiful decorations or very simple ones….the real point is….that our lives give witness by word and deed of the Baby Jesus….Marvelous Counselor…Mighty God…Crucified for our sins…and Risen in victory over sin and the King of Kings who reigns forever and ever.
May every day with Jesus be sweeter than the day before,
Bonnie E
December 22, 2008 at 4:21 pm
Kim
Bonnie E,
What beautiful..wonderful words….
Yes…Let’s keep our focus on Jesus this season, then reach out to others for His name.
December 22, 2008 at 6:07 pm
Mary B
Bonnie E.,
I had that song going throuh my head today : “Every day with Jesus be sweater than the day before” What a coincedence. Wow.
I love what you wrote.
December 22, 2008 at 7:59 pm
Bonnie E
Thanks, Kim and Mary B,
Mary B, your comment about the words to the “Everyday with Jesus is sweeter than the day before” song, blessed me. I know that my generation enjoys the occasional mention of “old familiar” hymns and choruses. Perhaps in the future the subject could be interesting to blog about. I’m a pastor, piano player/worship leader and although I’m playing the contemporary style songs in our church with the worship leaders and team musicians, I long for the simple melodies and harmonies of some wonderful vintage songs. Some of the new is wonderful…but I believe the vintage and older hymns are sadly neglected. I know this is off point for this thread, but it seemed appropriate to mention your comment, Mary. Thanks.
He lives!
Bonnie E.
December 22, 2008 at 8:30 pm
Mary B
Bonnie,
I live in Mayland and years ago, the local christian radio station had a program by the station owners. The program started with them singing that song “every day with Jesus” everyday the program came on. I really miss it. Yes, I miss the old hyms alot. They make me feel connected to the saints of old-the history of the church. Bless you!
Sorry for getting off topic Kim!
December 22, 2008 at 9:19 pm
Kim
Not a problem, because i want to say that we still sing the hymns at my Lutheran church. They are wonderful…….the other church i attend occasionally use the power point. Not the same…i love the words and phrases in the older songs because they help me truly worship Jesus.
December 24, 2008 at 10:48 pm
Bonnie
The two main reasons I do not celebrate Christmas:
December 25th was not the day of Jesus’ birth, it was the birthday of many pagan gods.
The Christ Mass was an invention of the Roman Catholic church. The most biblical of Christians avoided it like the plague until the early 1900’s. As we have gradually become accustomed to the non-Christian culture and to the dominant character of Roman Catholicism our stance has softened. We have forgotten our history.
Nowhere in Scripture are we told to celebrate Christ’s birth. We are commanded to observe two ordinances upon our conversion: be baptized and partake in the Lord’s supper.
As I have learned more about the Roman Catholic church, its dogmas and heavy-handed tactics, and its plan to infiltrate biblical churches with mysticism, I want absolutely nothing to do with it. I think it is important for people to study their history and to examine what they believe and practice it in the light of this and especially in the light of Scripture.
Because I am not a pagan and not a Roman Catholic I no longer recognize Christmas as a day any more special than any other in my home. The focus in our home has become cross-centered, and focused on the crucified life we are to live before God. It truly has made every day sweeter than the day before since we have begun to look at things this way. The story of Christ’s birth, death and resurrection is an integral part of who I am. Setting one day apart because the Roman Catholic church has ordained it has nothing to do with that.
It is only in the last two years that I have been able to come to this understanding. Most people do not realize these things and think we are “scrooges”. I am happy to be released from the bondage of the “Christmas spirit”. It was never Christian in the first place, so why do we think it is okay to baptize pagan traditions and use them as our own? Would you rename a Ouija board, an instrument of divination just because you liked the look of the board and all your neighbors used one? Not if you understand its nature and its history.
Thanks for the posting Kim. Keep up the good work. Blessings in the New Year.
December 24, 2008 at 11:05 pm
Kim
Bonnie,
We went on a trip last week and decided not to buy any gifts. This is so freeing. We are not gazing on packages that contain “stuff” that we don’t really need.
I was just reading 1 John 2:15-17 when your comment came up on my screen.
“Do not love the world or anything in the world. If anyone loves the world, the love of the Father is not in him. For everything in the world–the craving of sinful man, the lust of his eyes and the boasting of what he has and does–comes not from the Father but from the world. The world and its desires pass away, but the man who does the will of God lives forever.
Thank you so much for taking the time, i so..so….needed the encouragement you just sent….The Lord’s timing is everything.
God Bless.
December 25, 2008 at 10:31 am
Bonnie E
To Bonnie:
Ouija boards compared to the Christmas tree? I don’t think so. At any rate, you have found the freedom to not celebrate Christmas because of all the pagan rites associated with it. I think there is a possibility of folks who espouse those views swinging the pendulum of dogma (or lack thereof) to the extreme. Our witness to the grace and love of Jesus must speak forth every day that we live for Him. I do know that folks of the Jehovah’s Witness religion have adopted similar views of not celebrating Christmas, and somehow, they’ve managed to change their Bible to a hopeless and joyless existence without much eternal promise of being ‘forever with the Lord’. As I stated earlier, it is very interesting how Christians live out their faith and testimony.
I will continue to enjoy my decorations, my Christmas tree, and the reasonable giving of gifts to my loved ones. I do not in any way worship the tree….expect it to speak back to me (as in Ouija board) nor do I over shop, over spend, or over eat in the name of any holiday, sacred or secular. The fellowship in our home is wonderful because of Jesus and the music we sing and play as we are together all glorifies the Lord…We are not perfect. That’s why we love Him so. He loved us first and now we want to share Him with everybody……
I don’t look through judgmental eyes at you, Bonnie, for your decision. I know others in our community who feel the same way.
Merry, merry Christmas (i.e., May the Joy of the Lord bless your life and home every day of the year!)
Oh, Come Let Us Adore Him………Christ the Lord!
Respectfully,
Bonnie E.
December 25, 2008 at 11:54 am
Bonnie E
P.S. to Bonnie and Kim,
I think I should mention that I live in the Northwestern corner of Montana (very beautiful forested mountains and rivers). Our natural surroundings are a majestic reminder of the power and splendor of God’s creation. It was my joy to serve a small congregation of believers in a nearby community for 10 years as pastor. There were visitors from the community to every Christmas program we presented, with the simple nativity scenes and music portrayed and acted by our small church family. Afterwards, we served refreshments in the fellowship room, visited with family members of the children (who came to see their children perform the Word in pantomime, song and verse), and some came to a saving knowledge of Jesus through this very small, very simple outreach of love at Christmas time. It wasn’t the reclaimed pagan day of celebrating Christmas that drew them to the Cross of Jesus and repentance, it was the love Jesus manifested throughout His entire existence, which is without beginning and without end. He is Alpha and Omega….It was the faithful ministry of the Holy Spirit, working through the LIVING WORD, that brought lost hearts and lives to Life in HIm. Yes, at the close of every program, I gave a brief sermon of His Birth, His Life, His Death, His Resurrection, and an invitation to accept Him as Lord and Savior. He is the focus…He is the Joy…He is the Wonderful, Christ Incarnate, since the moment when the fullness of time was reached, and from the womb of the Virgin girl, Mary, he was born….just like you …just like me….to die…just like we would die…but through the death of the God/Man, He GAVE victorious Resurrection Life everlasting for YOU and ME and all who will, but stop and look…stop and listen…stop and say Yes, to the One who came, with accompanying praise of the Heavenly Choir that night in Bethlehem’s manger.
I’m not foolish enough to think that these brief comments of mine will cause anyone to change their views of all the above-mentioned issues of what is more or less holy or Christian at this time of year, but I believe there are some large misunderstandings of why and how I do what I do, and why the ‘non-Christmas celebrators’ do what they do. It is wonderful that we all love the Lord Jesus, and someday we’ll understand it better, when ‘that which is perfect is come’……….
Thank you, Kim, for this blog, and for allowing the viewpoints expressed to be shared, including mine. May your yoke be easy and your burden light….
With love and joy,
Bonnie E.